When Confidence Means You Don’t Need to Explain Yourself

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sayu9073 hours ago5 min read

When everything when we are getting involved in any sort of argument there are a lot of things that do revolve within our head and it comes to us naturally that we would actually like to make it clear what we feel and have the perspective about that particular thing then that particular argument and if we feel that we are on the correct side of that particular argument then we would definitely not like to Back Down.

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But on certain occasions there are a few such aspects that I need to be taken care of and even if we are trying to win that particular argument we might lose something else as well which is something that can definitely be much more meaningful to us and my choosing to lose at that point of time we are choosing piece and also trying to save something else and this is a particular aspect that we do not just because that we feel we are wrong but it is done due to a lot of other factors as well which can be just because we are tired or we are trying to save something else or we are trying to choose peace.

It is a particular choice and decision that we make out of our experience and also the gained majority through different things that we have come across and the same time it is definitely about actually trying to understand the situation and the things that it can cause if we are persisting with the thought of winning the argumented or just trying to make it clear which is actually making it even was and in that particular point of time that illusion that we are winning or we are right as always you going to be a particulars that we meet feel is going to be the better thing but in the long run it is definitely not going to be bringing us a lot of things that we are going to like which is something that makes us make that decision of leaving it.

Most of the times when we are complete with some sort of argument and were on the winning side it is not always going to be coming up with a lot of satisfaction that it has to offer and most of the times it is only going to be leaving us even more tensed and full of anxiety another same time it also depends on the other person that we are involved in with that particular debate which can definitely play a bigger role in deciding for us do I just stick to the argument or leave it and choose peace.

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Another very important aspect why we don't really like to always involve in arguments is going to be choosing our own self at times because these kind of things definitely are very much draining in terms of our energy and very really they are going to be productive in nature which makes them quite unnecessary for us but at the same time it is definitely going to be taking a lot out of US which is what makes it even more difficult for us to be staying involved in it as specially when it is creating even more conflicts rather than solving.

And a few times we do have a lot of confidence on our ownself and the things that was the prospective of hours in that particular argument which was about the topic itself and having that feet is enough for us which is also going to be giving us the confidence that we might not even need to argue with someone about that particular aspect which is why we also leave an argument with peace without even trying to clarify it just because of this confidence that we had because that disagreement with the other person is definitely not going to be enough to describe it to thoughts that we had.

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Inner peace is always going to be something that we would be craving all the time and it can be a very big necessity for us as specially because of the kind of things that we are always surrounded with and once we are in a kind of situation when we are facing such arguments then it becomes a very easy option or decision for us to make to not get much involved in it as it can definitely drag us down in that particular way and also ruin or mental space which is why we are choosing peace as the best option.

In the end it is something that is going to be the decision for us to make and most of the times people think it to be sign of weakness when people go silent but in reality it is something that is just done so that we can be protecting our ownself from something that we don't want to get ourselves involved in and proving appoint all the time is not always going to be something that is the purpose but at the same time same thing that might be more meaningful for us then a stupid argument is something that people do want to make sure.