Not All Growth Is Visible: Understanding the Small Shifts That Matter

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sayu9077 hours ago6 min read

One of the things that every single one of us chase in their life is obviously going to be growth as it is one of the things that we want as an outcome of all of the things that we do and it is something that we want to be making sure is going to be visible as well because all of the efforts that we are giving in is done just with that same thought in our minds which is about having some sort of growth in comparison to what we had in the previous time we checked it.

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However growth is something that is not always going to be visible for us to notice at it is also something that is not very dramatic when it is going to be arriving which makes it something that we might not even look at even if it is something that has already happened which is what makes us feel that even if we are growing in some way or the other which is something that definitely is not a very comfortable position to be finding ourselves in.

The imagination that we have about growth is going to be something that is going to be a new version of ourself whenever we are trying something new or stepping into a particular environment that we never have been in which can be in the form of a new home or even a new job that we just got into or something that is always going to be making a feel that it is something that has made a lot of difference in terms of what we had and what we have today.

But in many ways growth is something that is going to be hidden in many small things that might not be even noticeable for us which makes it something that is very much different than just having a new version of ourself but at the same time this is very hard for us to recognise and it is also quit important for us to be acknowledging every single small amount of growth as well that we are making because without that it might be a little bit demotivating for us because we are giving in efforts to achieve that.

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One of the things that we should be paying much attention to in terms of actually thinking about that we have actually meet some sort of truth is my actually looking at the same situation which we had in the past and when dealing with that same situation in the present we do react in a much different manner which is something that surely he is a big indicator of growth and that can clearly define as dait vi have actually come across a particular place which actually used to be very much hard for us to deal with but now we do it with a little bit less difficulty or it is completely not a kind of issue for us anymore and these are the things that can actually make us have that sense of growth.

Apart from the fact that there are a lot of other things as well that we do get in terms of within ourselves, that changes, which is also going to be with the definition that we have for success itself, because it is a particular aspect that we had in the past about the goals that we were trying to achieve.

We can also acknowledge it by actually looking at the number of boundaries that we have set for our own self even when we felt it was very much uncomfortable for us to be actually doing that we still did it just because it was something that actually was a thing that we needed rather than what we wanted and that is one of those things that can actually be a very big sign of growth as we are giving up things that we want just because we want to achieve something that is going to be a particular aspect which is going to make us more comfortable within our ownself and that is what setting boundaries does which is always going to be filled with initially but at the longer run it is going to be making us a very good protective barrier which we need.

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We can also not as it in the way we are handling the responsibilities that we have because it could have been very much difficult for us to be maintaining things in a very clear cut manner and taking accountability for something that was not very easy for us but the amount of change that we can notice in those particular situations in something that can also be defining the amount of growth that we have made and all of these things I never going to be not test if we are not thinking about them in the way to compare them as well.

One of the biggest things that can be approve that we have made a lot of growth is going to be about our behaviour with our ownself which is to become more Kindle to our ownself as we have always been more critical towards ourselves in every single thing that we have been doing which is obviously going to be getting more Kindle as we are going to experience different things over the years which is only going to happen when we are experience in those news situations which is itself a big indicator of growth as well and that has been helpful for us in many ways too.

It definitely might be very difficult for us to recognise the growth that we have made but at the same time it is something that is obviously a part within our ownself that is something which we need to observe through different spectrum as it might not always be very easily visible and it can be in the form of many small things piling up on top of each other which is actually a very big prove of the growth that we have made and that is something which we need to understand.