Checking partner phone- spying or closeness

Do you think it's bad to check your spouse phone? You might be looking at what this single girl wants to lecture us about marriage but I want to let you know if you don't know that experience doesn't have to be based on age or status,Exposure is different from age, A 30 years old might have less exposure than a 20 year old sometime, the environment, parents background ,community in which one was born and brought up contribute greatly to our exposure. I was opportune to be experienced in some things that some of my age mate might not, relationship with people,be it friendship or being couple.

I can tell it to you that checking your spouse phone is not a bad thing at all,what's marriage when loyalty is lost, everyone should lenr to take being loyal to their spouse as every important thing, that shouldn't be a problem if loyal is been promoted in family. Why should partner hide from each other?

You can argue to me that we should have privacy even in romantic relationship but then why do you call "one"in marriage when there's privacy? It shouldn't be checking phone in secrets, it should be access to each other phone and when one partner finds something that doesn't sit well with him or her, they should ask their partner and talk about it. Trust should be freely given and not forced in all relationship , so I don't see having Access to each other phone as something bad at all, it's should be a normal thing, if truly two has become one .

To me ,it's not intrusive at all, it's a sign of closeness and teamwork, that's what marriage should be.

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