WHAT DOES IT MEAN TO BE FAITHFUL IN MARRIAGE /FAMILY ?
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1 . Loving your spouse in public and in private
2 . Cutting off an ex who is coming to confuse you or disrespect your spouse
3 . Not participating in sexual jokes at the work place that lead to blurred lines
4 . Sexting only your spouse and if your spouse is not much of a texter, choosing not to use that as an excuse to send suggestive messages to another
5 . Avoiding to call other people of the opposite gender suggestive names that belong only to your spouse such as "Sweetheart", "Love", "Darling", "Baby"
6 . Surrounding yourself with friends who encourage you to be faithful to your spouse and who can tell you off when you start to veer off
7 . Looking away when you notice your eyes are desiring another person sexually. Do not feed lust
8 . Choosing not to take care of another person of the opposite gender financially in secret yet neglecting your spouse
9 . Telling off people who come at you to make sexual advances
10 . Making it known that you are married lest anyone thinks you are available
11 . Ignoring or blocking people who still want to flirt with you yet they know you are married
12 . Avoiding your body rubbing on another at the workplace, supermarket or social gatherings; this excitement leads to more longing for body rubbing
13 . Bragging about your spouse to someone who is lying to you that they will treat you better than your spouse
14 . Stopping the excitement of dressing up sexy to get the attention of a work colleague. This expectation of impressing a special someone will lead to an affair and distract you from impressing your spouse
15 . Avoiding habits such as drinking and excessive parting and activities that tempt you and put you in a compromising situations
16 . Unfriending a friend who doesn't respect boundaries
17 . Honouring your spouse even when your spouse doesn't know what you are doing or is far from you
18 . Avoiding pornography and masturbating to videos and photos online since this will train your eye to lust after multiple people
19 . Choosing not to send nude photos of yourself to someone who is not your spouse
20 . Choosing not to receive nude photos or videos of people who are trying to seduce you
21 . Avoiding phone sex with someone not your spouse. If you phone sex or video call another to talk sexual stuff, your desire for that person will grow
22 . Choosing not to have lengthy intimate chats with another person not your spouse
23 . Choosing not to confide in another your naughty thoughts and sexual fantasies. These secrets belong only to your spouse
24 . Choosing not to hold, caress, tightly hug, sensually massage or cuddle up a friend in the name of comfort. Physical intimacy belongs only to your spouse
25 . Avoiding naughty games such as strip poker, truth or dare or kissing games that might cheer you into dishonouring your spouse
26 . Avoiding the lie that you can make out with another person as long as you don't sleep with them
27 . Choosing not to give another person more time and attention than you give to your spouse
Faithfulness is not only about not having sexual intercourse with another; but also about honouring your spouse with your mind, eyes, ears, words, feelings, time, hands and body.
Choose to be faithful.
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