MOTHERS I AM SORRY, I JUDGED YOU WRONGLY.

Before now when I see mothers with their kids throwing tantrums, I get so irritated I feel like the child isn't disciplined and the parents have pet the child too much. I also feel like the mother expecially isn't doing her job well, because why will your child act that way?

My sweet headache

Hold up!! Don't judge me 😔 I felt that way because I don't have a child then, and now I have a different thinking.

Now I know better that those women are really trying and kids will always be kids.

I only have one child but he is a hand full, on days where he wants to be extra I have serious headaches as a result of shouting.

Emmanuel come back here!!!

Sorry for the distraction I just shouted again.
Stop that!!
Don't touch it!!
Leave there please!!
These words are frequently used by me, they leave rent free in my head.

I have tried both the soft method and the hard method but non of them is working.
It's really exhausting, somedays back while at my workspace my son went into this compound where this kekenapel is packed, I have gone in more than five times to being him out and he keeps returning there. Now he has spoilt the gate and there is a CCTV camera there.
I don't even know what else to say to the house owners.

I also have evidence against him just incase the CCTV footage isn't enough for the house owners to arrest him.😒

Mothers I am sorry I judged you wrongly 😔 please forgive me and help your inexperienced fellow.
How do I let this little man understand that I am serious?

How do you get your kids to seat at a place and stay quiet?

Please share with me before I make aspirin my favourite meal.