Stand your ground
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As a lady ,if a man tells you he cheated on you just because you said you aren't allow ing him sleep with you until he has sworn in court to be ur husband. Dear lady,don't ever fall for that to give it to him so he won't cheat on you again. Instead end that relationship right there , because he is surely going to cheat on you even after giving him to do the do . As a lady ,you should always take not of some little signs, A man that cannot control himself before marriage will likely struggle with self control after marriage and this is how infidelity starts.
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Do not be deceived in some statement like "sex is a necessity for man" because this is a big lie that has been sold to people. Ok, if sex is all that makes a relationship works ,then why do people who have sex everyday still breakup? Why do married couples who had sex before marriage still divorced ? If sex was the glue, wouldn't it have kept them together?
I know sexual desires is natural but then self-control is also natural and that's what differentiate them from boys . A real man won't be controlled by his urges . He would make decisions based on wisdom and not feelings . We are not animals, hence ,we have wisdom,wil power and moral values . I don not quote "sex" is bad ooo but for those who doesn't want to engage in it until it is right shouldn't be be pressured by someone.
Dear ladies, Don't assume every relationship is built on sex. There are many of standard ,if you haven't met one ,you will definitely meet ,if you continue to keep to your words. Commitment proves love not sex. If someone truly loves you ,they will respect your values not pressure you into what you are not comfortable with .
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