My Actifit Report Card: August 1 2024

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arveno2.3 Klast monthActifit3 min read

Hi to all my actifiters friends around the worlds, how are you doing today? i am hoping that you are all healthy and fine. Today i want to ask you guys, have you ever feel like feeling guilty after make you kid discipline? like we are as a parents said many no to our kids because we know thats bad for the future.I feel that sometimes. Especially when i said no to what my son likes. It makes my mind throwing back to myself as a child that got big No from my parents. It hurts my heart so much and sometimes can growing like scars or even heartbroken to my parents. And i am afraid my son fell that way too. It is like dilema in my mind lately. Even though i am still saying many No to think that not good for my son in the future like watching some channels on youtube or no to games that can crush his morale. Or eating or drinking snacks that contains so many sugar. I feel guilty to make him away from this things because he likes it very much. I hope i can read my son minds sometimes or i can read his feelings so i can said something better. I am afraid that my rule will make him down or even worse that he think his father dont love him at all. Especially i am still receive chinese stigma that bonding between father and son sometimes cannot be heart to heart. I am still get fear and dictactorship from my father. And until right now sometimes i still afraid if i make mistakes in front lf him. I dont like that mind goes to my son. But, i dont know how to change the method. Sometimes i try to change the method but it is not function well. And with hard method it will be easier. But, compared with my father, i am better. I never hit my son again after he is 3 years old. i am just warning him and never hit him again. Often i felt gulty after hit him. And believe me i am still get hit when i am 18 years old. And the last my father hook me in the face when i am 20 years old. I never forget the pain and my mistake till now. But for me it is still good lesson. I never mock someone in the face directly. I am hoping someday my son will understand why i am strict to him right now.
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